Again about the stereotypes in dating relations

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There are a lot of myths and stereotypes surround us in dating relationships. Let remember some of them and will be more attentive to each other in life.

The first myth is “right communication it is all in relations”. In any bookstore you’ll see a ton of material about only an everyday usual “right communication” can change relations between the partners.

It is not so. Probably in books and in the articles in internet too much attention emphasis on communication by “the rules” between partners and more often at the most inopportune time. It does not bring any results, especially if only one partner is in need of such communication.

Yeah, right communication is important in a relationship! But, communication without a spark, no matter how “correct” it was – just harm … remember that!

Many people who have read a lot of books, learned seminars about “right communication” very often noticed, that they did not improve the relationship, but more and more become routine. It always happens when people try to restore communication between each other without the preliminary work on spark of passion and love in their relationship.

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What would happen if assemble a few pairs with extinct spark in a relationship, put them in one room and get them to communicate by “the rules”? It will cause a controversy and additional insults – nothing more. So, conclusion. You need to work on your Spark before improve your communication with your partner. This is pledge of happy relationships! First you need to revive the spark of passion and love! To revive the mutual attraction!

Another myth. “The passion and mutual attraction … always dies”. Speaking of passion and attraction between the partners, all the time people notice that the passion and attraction always turn into obligation and friendship between the partners … Do you know that in every relationship that lasts even a ten years, there is always exist a certain doze of passion and attraction. Although this spark is not always strong as when the couple met, but the chemistry of love is still there in a pair …

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Without the such spark, the relationship just become a habit. And when that happens – the passion dies, the relationship will be empty and both parners will be tempted to find that spark somewhere.

Conclusion: no matter how long you’ve been with a person, whether it be months or years. If you want happy relationships, you should not be lazy and let the relationship take its course.

Your relationship is in your hands! You should keep your spark of love and passion, otherwise your relationship will gradually wither away.