Scammers…One of the most difficult and stubborn problem. Who are they? Just girls who need money, money and only moneys in their life? Or girls who want to find their real love, but only if he will have a lot of money to grant their wishes? =) So so difficult to understand them and to catch them. Let’s try to understand. Of course I want to say that each situation, each couple is individual, but we will try to talk about common situations.
Something, what can happen with everyone. First of all I would like to tell shortly sad story of my best friend. He met a great girl, he was so happy! The girl was so intelligent and educated in letters, so perfect that he felt that may be she is his second part, the girl with whom they can build real strong family. They communicated for some months, he was so sincere in his letters and she answered with love and warm words. The first strange things I felt after looking at her pictures. The girl sent to my friend pictures near so poor places, so poor and dilapidated houses, even dirty street toilets. Why? She said that it is her house, without electricity, without anything, that they have so bad situation in her family… Of course my friend was in shock, he wanted to help so much! (By the way, one day she came to the web cam to the agency – with last model mobile phone, sunglasses Gucci and super cloth). He couldn’t think that girl can lie! I will not describe all the situation, because I know that my friend wouldn’t be happy to read everything. Just I want to say that one day this girl wrote the letter, that she can’t live without him, that she loves him so much and ready to come.
She said that in the travel agency they explained everything to her, etc. And he need a sum (more then 10000$). When my friend told her, that his friend will come to her house and give money and help her with everything, she immediately became different… When he called – her first words were – I haven’t money for Internet to write you my address, etc…I checked this girl and she had completely different life from the life she explained in letters and by phone. It is great we found in time that she is a scammer. So long to explain, but what I wanted to say – please! Be careful! In such situations everything depends of you. Better come first to your love and say that you will prepare everything together, if she is serious, she will be only happy to have you near her. And anyway you will see her reaction. =)
Or you can make connection with the agency and they will help you with everything! Because I know some stories when men call to the agency and ask them to take money from girl. It is impossible, girl will be deleted from the dating agency, but your money will be deleted from you. Don’t call to the dating agencies after something like this happened to you – no one will help you, even court… So, shortly – be careful from the beginning! If you want to make her happy – you can come and make her happy! Only real meeting always show real feelings…