The searching of twin soul mate

How to find my soul mate

According to legend, about which says practically all the romantic movies, kindred souls – a pair in which the lovers are tuned on the same wavelength, they miraculously understand each other even without words. Or, for example, one begins a phrase, and another ends it – and all their problems miraculously solved with the sounds of the lyrical melody.

It’s tempting, is not it? Looking at these relations in the romantic movies, many of people are beginning to believe, if they will meet really kindred soul, they will save from errors. Alas, not save. But men continue to aggressively seek the same one who will be the ideal partner, even though they really do not know what they want truly. Twin soul – a concept so vague and non-specific, each person put something of their own in, often confusing requirements for the beloved woman and best friend. What do you think, how long can you find a woman who will understands you better than you? Or a woman, who has the same interests (as an option – loves fishing, cycling and grow cacti)?

Find your soulmate

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1. If someone claims that he come to agreement with the second half of everything, and they have the same values, hobbies, habits and desires – do not believe!
2. Two people can not exist in perfect harmony, without at least one of them was “bended” for another, using own tools of psychological defense. Someone to lower the point of view, calming yourself with the arguments of reason, “it’s not a big deal”. Someone just “off” and agreeing, but save his own point of view in the deep of soul. The third, carefully avoid conflicts, saying that “just dreaming of a quiet life.”
3. In the end, this rationalization (self-explanation actions that person does) can lead to the fact that all the feelings and emotions (not just negative) turn off. Beware, it dangerous for the psyche!
4. In fact, the myth of a kindred soul required in order to convince people that their mission is to be with someone. But this mission impossible, without prejudice to mental health.


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5. First, if partner confident that your souls are merged into a single whole, begins to take offense when “suddenly” discovers that you have not learned telepathy. And it happens quite often, if only one partner can not read thoughts.
6. Second, the constant feeling of community gradually breaks the people’s individuality. Personal boundaries are blurred, so it’s not clear where one person ends and another begins.