Dating international open it is necessary to be in the correspondence?

The dating international by the online internet are one of many variants of acquaintance, accordingly, most important role at the beginning of the attitudes and at its construction play the personal factors. The online Internet only the mean, which increases the probability and opportunity of dating acquaintance, does it by more accessible. Thus, however, as well as any other opportunities, has the specificity, has the lacks, danger, and also the advantages.

Some people at dating acquaintance by the sites and at correspondence go to two extremes: they excessively secretly behave, or, on the contrary, to take off all borders and tell about themselves all there is to know. How do you think, how frank and open it is necessary to be in the correspondence?

Concerning frankness and openness in correspondence it is meaningful to understand, as far as the person you correspond with, in general are ready to be frank and open, as far as is ready psychologically to construction of the attitudes with the women. It is very individually and, undoubtedly, to leave a mark to the further attitudes.

They say, that the first impression cannot be made twice, concerning to the online dating – here first impression can be made three times: the acquaintance in a network, then by the phone and then at personal meeting. Each of these steps is similar to new acquaintance. Therefore, defining a level of an openness and wishing to create an impression at dialogue in a online, you must remember, that you, generally speaking, STILL at a phase of acquaintance, instead of you ALREADY have got acquainted. You can communicated for a long time with the partner on correspondence, but it is important to understand, that this is the beginning of acquaintance, and the personal contact is irreplaceable.

There is no the universal dating advice – what is important to one, can not right to another, therefore it is necessary to be natural, such, what you are in life. To play any role communicating in a network not so difficult, but later you should support the such image at the real meeting. The not so good script for a beginning of the attitudes.

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Indoubtedly, the dialogue in a network it is the dialogue through the words, which should be selected and collect to the phrases, sentences … it is a magnificent opportunity to know more the interlocutor, at the same time to expose yourself, to interest in him, to carry away by dialogue. “To expose” in this case means don’t tell the whole truth, but to carry away by own internal world, interests, views on life, the style of dialogue.

In this connection is recollected the known case, when the Italian has arrived to Russia to find the russian bride. He had the precise parameters, long list of characteristics and qualities which should have his the chosen one – growth 1.7 m, natural blonde russian girl, the certain mark of the Zodiac, year of birth, a lot of hobbies etc. It is incredible, but were found the suitable girls, with all these parameters, including dates of birth! But all maidens, suitable to his list, did not suit him for inexplicable reasons. In a result, he went away with the translator, with short growth, naturally red, with freckles, little bit full-bodied and – she is not conform to any of items of his list. Now both of them are pleased with a marriage, and the Italian laughs, how he was mistaken concerning what russian bride ( russian fiancee ) is necessary to him. During the dialogue with always accompanying him the translator he could know her better and to understand what exactly such woman is necessary to him.

Distance which divides you and your potential elect is also matters. If you live in one city, for sure, the acquaintance at once would become the real without any difficulties. But if your partner by correspondence lives in the other city, other Russia or Ukraine country, on the other continent, it is meaningful just to expose so that to interest him, that the international acquaintance and marriage became a real.

Readiness to give the contacts, telephone numbers, addresses, a place of work etc is similar to readiness to inform it with casual acquaintance in the street. Is it correct? It is difficult to to give the simple answer. The same it is possible to tell about the openness, facts of the biography, personal details, it also very individually. For this purpose it is important to know, what attitudes you want, to define the borders, up to which you are ready to let the unfamiliar person. You must understand, that before the real meeting the person “till other side of the monitor” may be the imagination instead of the real person.

So, the degree of frankness and openness are defined by the style of dialogue, the skill and readiness to build the attitudes with an woman, and online dating international here is only the means of dialogue.