Five possible misunderstanding in the first dating

First dating for meeting and marriage

1. You were too gentle, not showing your inner core. Many women complained about some men who try to oblige them. “Too nice” men look hopeless or weak. They had no hardness. And their “sentimental” e-mails, full of flattery, definitely pushed away. “He obviously too far from flattery “- say the ladies almost in unison.

“When I wished good night, he looked like a sad puppy”, “He was too nice, too transparent … and not intrigued”. Paradox. Most men do not like the so-called women-boss, and women are don’t like orphans, henpecked men.

2. You looked as a slut.
There is specific subtype of men, which even does not occur, that at least for the first meeting to they must to put themselves in proper form, to clean teeth, clothes and shoes. No need to forget about scissors and tweezers for hairs protruding from the nose.

3. You to go too far with banalities.
Do men think that when they say the vulgarity, make crude remarks at the woman – it is really
excites? Here the same phrase, that they spoke in their wretched trying to drag a woman into bed. “He began to undress me by eyes … speak, how I am beautiful and how sexually dressed in
first minute of dating. I hate when the guy is too early to start thinking about sex especially for a cup of hot chocolate in daylight!” The irrepressible vulgarity, the lack of a sense of proportion – this is not even the mistakes. This is lack of intelligence. Men who know how to joke about sex, are extremely rare.

4. You are not showed you a knight with the ambitions.
The women of all ages and nations wait from men the chivalry, a successful career and initiative.
Therefore, they complain that the gentleman first ordered the drink to himself, went ahead along the narrow sidewalk, or that divide the expenses for dinner. “Perhaps this is old-fashioned, but I think the gentleman should remain a gentleman. I always suggest but never expect that he will agree to pay half”.
And the girls did not interested of young people who have no ambitions – in work or in hobby. Successful lady dash aside from such man as in general due to suspicion that they want to use.

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5. You’ve been busy with only yourself.
It is about selfish guys. About those that did not show attention to others. “He was totally self-absorbed. He not asked a single question about me” – often the girl says. Sometimes the behavior of the cavaliers borders on arrogance. Once an Italian doctor at the end of dating said the girl: “Congratulations: I want to meet you again”. And the other such a prince said the pearl: “Usually I do not meet with the women over thirty five, because I want children, but I do not mind to go with you anywhere again. He thought probably that he said a compliment to the lady. Yeah! It is boring when you meet the narcissistic peacock, not seeing beyond his variegated tail. When this man his begins non-stop broadcasting, what hi is wonderful, and his business etc, you agree, it is sad.