The online dating guide for beginners

Before jumping into the dating waters, ask yourself what it is you are looking for from the experience. Do you just want to meet people to expand your social circle? Are you more interested in casual dating? Perhaps you are ready for a long, meaningful relationship with that special someone. Either way, knowing what you want will go a long way to making this adventure painless and fun.

There are many websites that offer to get you set up in the online dating scene. The best thing to do is browse a few different sites first to see what they offer. A lot of the leading sites are pay sites where you have to pay a fee for their matching services. Read the reviews that other users have and then choose a few that you think would most benefit you. Having a couple sites working for you increases your odds of finding a partner faster. And it increases the number of dates you go on which is especially helpful for people who have been out of the dating circle for a while.

The next thing to do is to start developing your profile, part of which involves getting a good photo of yourself. This is essential in the online world and needs to be both honest and flattering. You shouldn’t post a picture of yourself from years ago if you’ve changed a lot over the years. Honesty will make sure there are no surprises later when you and your date meet. And be sure that your picture is clear so potential dates can get a good look at you.

Another part of the profile is the headline. This quick caption is a couple of words listed next to your picture. It should be catchy and depict who you are or what you’re looking for in a couple of words. Keep it friendly and original so that people want to learn more about you.

The rest of your profile will be a more in-depth description about who you are. Now is not the time to write your memoir and list all of your accolades, because you need to have something to talk about on the date, right? It doesn’t need to be written like a resume, either. Instead, it should keep the same friendly tone you used to write your headline. Maybe mention that you like pets. But don’t mention that you’ve got four cats each named after a member of the Beatles.

Now that your profile’s done, you’re all set to talk to potential love interests. Having a good attitude will go a long way with this adventure you’re on. If a date doesn’t work out, no problem. Just keep a positive outlook and go on the next one.